Last night I had girls night with my roomie and a friend of hers which was MUCH needed. I had been complaining to my best friend about the lack of female friendship I have here in D.C.. Due to that and my own choosing, I have been keeping to myself and going out with a few people here and there.
Graduating college, I always thought that I would have my set of “girlfriends”, who would get to be/and share a part of my life and vice versa. Well the problem is, I have a group of girls that I cherish and enjoy, but they don’t live near me.
Being in a new city with a handful of friends has been rather interesting and challenging at the same time; but as I sat next to my roomie, I couldn’t help but to think that I secretly missed and yearned having a close girl friend I could talk too…someone I could go shopping with, someone I could party with and just being silly with.
As the bottomless margaritas and endless set the tone of our night, a topic of zodiac signs emerged. I realized that her friend and I were the same sign….GEMINI!
While we squealed and chuckled at the similarities and characteristics we shared, we couldn’t help but to be slightly amused at how we were attracting the same type of men and the same type of zodiac signs and wondering why we were getting the SAME RESULTS!
I couldn’t help but to think…. is there some truth in zodiac signs and more importantly, does your significant others sign matter?
Everyone is different, I get that, but are there similar characteristics in these signs that we don’t know about?
Well, I went home and did some research to see how I measured up as a Gemini woman… especially in dating. I know that I can be quite demanding, stand offish, inquisitive, indecisive, loving, caring, etc. and the list goes on but I was quite shocked at the striking similarities.
The Gemini woman is truly enchanting. However, dating her might feel more like a friendship then a real relationship due to her casual nature. This is not necessarily a disadvantage, for the casual man who shy’s away from overly romantic emotions, she is the perfect woman. Since she is the astrology sign of the duality, she offers quite the challenge. On one hand, she needs to be nurtured, loved and catered to and on the other hand, she needs stimulation and novelty. She is very demanding and if you do not provide what she wants, she will be off onto the next adventure pretty quickly. To keep her interested is a challenge, not completely impossible so she is the perfect woman for the man who likes stimulation and a challenge. She needs a partner with a quick mind, she tends to poke and prod at the emotions and the minds of those who are mentally slower then her, make sure you can keep up to her wit or you will briskly be left behind. She is prone to keeping men on a string, not completely heartlessly, she is evaluating if the man is worth her attention and her time she has no time to waste with a dull man. Once you have her approval, she can easily become jealous. The reason for her is jealousy is that if she is going to open up to a man, when she rarely completely opens up to anyone, she does not want to risk her being deceived or hurt. If you are with a Gemini woman and she becomes jealous, you are on the right track to true love! Gemini women are so exciting that they are worth the effort, you will remember her forever!
As I sat there examining and re-examining myself, I couldn’t help but to think how an analysis of my zodiac sign can draw up such a close to accurate conclusion about myself. Pretty hard to believe it but there it was staring me in the face.
Should I account that my failed relationships were caused because the men in my life weren’t zodically synced with me?
I find this pretty fascinating…I would be lying if I stated otherwise. However, this rather large paragraph, doesn’t fully explain why I am me. Now it can generalize some attributes that I can relate too but it doesn’t explain why sometimes I am really moody and sometimes I like to be alone, sometimes I want to be with someone who makes me want to sing cheesy love songs or flirt and smile at every attractive person that catches my eye.
Meh….I am too complex for a mere paragraph…ask my ex. LOL.
Zodiac signs in my opinion should be a great conversation topic but shouldn’t weighed too heavily in your life, especially your love life. If that was the case, than I should be dating an Aquarius since we match well, but instead I’m not. My bestie is an Aquarius though and we have been going strong since 2006. I should be in love with a Libra but instead I’m not. I should be elated with my Aries…but I’m not. I should be holding hands and snuggled under a Sagittarius but umm yea….that isn’t happening either.
Get the point? Good.
What do you think about zodiac signs? Are you a believer? Why or why not?